Friday, June 8, 2012

Executing the 'Master Plan'

The Master plan has always been to be able to travel and to experience novelty and an adrenalin rush at all moments. It took a long time for my travel lust to get an opportunity to satiate itself, but the wait makes it sweeter and more treasured. Ever since I can remember, I have been hooked on to travel shows dreaming of being a 'Traveller'; and, that's what my answer used to be to the eternal and almost automated question "What do you want to be when you grow up?". I never said I wanted to be a travel-show host, I just always wanted to be in the places they showed and do the things they did, so, I wanted to be just a Traveller. Not to mention the confused follow-up questions this would inspire! I grew up watching Samantha Brown's and Ian Wright's travel chronicles and I continue to admire and envy them.

Getting a scholarship to study in Germany has encouraged the travel bug to bite me even harder. Being here for the next 2 years and a half has filled me with the desire to walk all over Europe and know it's story as much as I can. Travelling is much more than a leisure activity for me. It's not what I like to do when I have a few free days. It is something I want to do all the time, and when i choose not to travel, that'll be my free time. That is of course, the ideal situation. I don't travel to escape the monotony of life. I travel because, for me it is the best way to find myself and to know myself better. It is like meditation for me. Everyone has different reasons to travel and all are equally valid, of course. Every time I have traveled to a new place or a known place, I have invariably discovered a new aspect of me. When I meet new people, see new places and terrain, and eat new food, I learn. I learn how we are all different and yet so inherently similar. I learn about the things that make us different and the things that make us one. It is so easy to spot the differences when one is detached from one's environment, but try going deeper and you will marvel at what you unravel.

My first stop in what I termed in one of my careless Facebook updates, "My European Conquest", was Budapest. I started out with very superficial knowledge about the city. It is the capital of Hungary, it is the capital of baths and spas, and it has a beautiful Parliament. When I entered the train that would take me to Budapest, all I could say to myself was "I'm travelling". 'Travelling' includes all things special for me. The moment I stepped out of the subway and onto the open in the city, I knew it was special. All places have a soul and if you're receptive enough, you can check if it is congruous with you in a jiffy. The three days I spent in Budapest are so special that I am sure the sight and memories of the place will linger on for very long. And, by virtue of the DSLR camera that I have finally managed to grasp, the sights the place offered to me will stay on, though in miniatures. Pictures are of course the best souvenirs. They are saturated with memories. When memory fails, look at the relevant picture to let the memories flood back.


Budapest is an architectural marvel. Baroque, Eclectic, Rococo, art-nouveau all manifesting their majestic best in a single city can be overwhelming and can induce speechlessness. Separated by the river Danube, Buda and Pest are two very different entities of a single city. While Buda has a rocky and uneven terrain studded with structures more traditional, Pest lies on plain land and hence easier to negotiate. Pest is a blend of ancient and modern, a mix so perfect. 




The River Danube, with Buda on the left and Pest on the right.


We were five of us who had travelled to Budapest. While two of us, Nasser and me had our hostel in Pest, our friends were at a hostel across the river in Buda. Technology failed and the two groups failed to communicate and hence meet despite being in the same city. That is a hint towards how separated Buda and Pest are despite being one. The two and a half days that we spent in Budapest, we walked as much as we could and at times even pushed ourselves. We got lost a number of times but always managed to find our way back to familiar places. After all, isn't getting lost the best way to find oneself! Most of the times our incentive to the long walks would be "grand meals" that we would promise ourselves. The food touched my soul. There were so many options that I felt helpless and miserable when I had to make the decision; and i'm quite sure Nasser felt the same way when he passed on the baton to me. I still believe his claim that I "needed practice at decision-making" was actually just convenient for him! I disliked the thought of having to miss out on 'the other option' and being the reason for it! Since we shared immense interest in food, we ended up blowing up an indecent amount of money over food. We both agreed that it made no sense to travel to Hungary to eat hot-dogs and sandwiches to save money for other things. What 'other things', we asked!

The Hungarian Goulash has a 'family-meal' feel to it



My first meal in Budapest. How i wish it would never finish! 'Pike perch fillet with dil shrimp ragout served with parsley potatoes.'

Sailing on the boat down the river Danube was the highlight of the trip. We had to make a short race against time to catch the last boat of the evening; the gates closed right at my heels. What followed was a 30 minute dream. Passing under the bridges and sailing past the Hungarian parliament is a feeling to which words can't do justice. All I know is, I kept my senses alert to be able to absorb the cool river breeze and all the shapes and colours available in sight. The Parliament is majestic.


Colours.
As the sun began to set, it bled bright and intriguing colours all across the sky, over the structures on the either side of the river and on the river. The way all of them reciprocated to the setting sun almost made it look like a conversation! The boat left us at the Margaret Island, which is in the middle of the Danube. We walked along the banks of the river until the sun had set and night had taken over. The night lights lit up and like magic the city turned golden against the royal-blue sky. It left me gasping for air. I gave up and sat under the bridge, staring at the perfect frame it provided for the Parliament on one side and the castle on the other side of the river. The Chain Bridge looked like a gorgeous gold necklace, and the Parliament was of course astonishingly enchanting.


That magical moment. The Hungarian Parliament and the Chain Bridge.
I repeatedly mention the parliament because, it demands that. I took many pictures of it, from different angles, with different frames, just to remind myself of how mystified I was at that moment. I would strongly recommend every one planning to go to Budapest to spend one evening by the riverbank just to soak in the view.


When it was time to end the trip, my entire being was exhausted. I absolutely love this feeling. Isn't it great when you crash on your bed and fall asleep instantaneously! I missed out on the famous and sought-after Budapest baths. I don't regret of course. I believe it is best to have unfinished business with your favourite people and places. It takes you back to them soon!



8 comments:

mariyam said...

You make me feel so sane Arundhati.
This piece is beautifully written, and captures the beauty of Budapest as no one else could.
You definitely could start your way as a brilliant travel blogger!

Rozita Singh said...

Arundhati this travelogue was beautiful. Life comes a full circle, Samantha Brown once made you jealous and now its your turn to make all of us jealous ;) Im a hardcore TLC fan too. Enjoyed reading this peace and hope you explore the whole of Europe during your 2 yr stay there... have fun :D keep writing, so poor souls like us do not feel left out!

Unknown said...

Thank you girls! I'm glad you liked the post. With such fairy-tale like beauty all around me, I'm sure I'll be writing more!

Aditya said...

After reading your post a while back, what struck me was how commonplace the line about "travelling to discover yourself" has become. Having travelled a fair bit, and having pored over "Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance", I can get why you would say that. However, I have a contrasting view.

I've been thinking over the issue intermittently over the past few weeks. I think I'll paraphrase Proust who said (knowledge gleaned from watching "Little Miss Sunshine" and not a reading of "Remembrance of Times Past") that his most creative times were when he was at his unhappiest. I tend to agree. I know that in my happiest moments I was too busy having fun to sit and write (or for that matter even think). It's only when I've been at my loneliest that I've reflected over life's little questions and found answers.

I appreciate that loneliness is not equal to aloneness, and I've had my share of fun, solitary adventures. However, I think what these holidays and travels added weren't epiphanies but the gradual absorption of worldly knowledge, through experiencing life in a broader manner. I'm too busy enjoying my travels and my experiences (like my almost getting mugged in Sacramento - which was so cool!) to be taking long journeys into my own head.

I'm not sure why I'm writing this on this blogpost, but I needed to sort this stuff out in my head and thought it could be done crediting the person who put the chain of thought in my head in the first place.

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Unknown said...

I agree with you when you say "I'm too busy enjoying my travels and my experiences...". It's only after about 15 days that I managed to put my Budapest experience to words here, and i did it when i was locked up in my room and broke and hence, couldn't travel that weekend! However, when you have different experiences as you travel, don't you also uncover certain aspects of yourself? Like the almost-geting-mugged experience of your's must have made you aware of something new about yourself? Didn't it amuse you? It's probably not something out of the blue because ultimately, if only subconsciously, we know what we are made of. But for me, these travel experiences make me know myself better-obviously 15 days later when i sit alone and reminisce about them!
p.s: tell me about your Sacramento experience!!

Aditya said...

Exactly, it's all about adding to life's experiences, to provide a broader perspective. This perspective, in turn, helps in achieving those epiphanies, which make their appearance in times of solitary introspection.

The Sacramento story will have to wait. In the meanwhile you could read of my experience on the California Zephyr (the Amtrak connecting Sacramento to Chicago).

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Puru Govind said...

Super writing. This blog is more beautiful than actual Budapest :)

Unknown said...

Ah, so I discover this comment half a year later! It's like finding money in a forgotten wallet or pocket. Thank you :)